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Alright, someone who is at least somewhat decent with boys/relationship advice:
How exactly does one go about telling the person they like how they feel? I've never had to do this before.. It just seems weird. I'm so awkward around boys, I barely ever talk to them. I really want to tell this guy I like him, but I have NO idea how. & no it isn't as simple as just saying 'I like you'. Believe me, I've tried that, but it just didn't feel right.. How do you even bring that up in a conversation? :/
I'm probably making this more difficult than it is.
But I'd like to know how one goes about doing this.
Thanks.
How exactly does one go about telling the person they like how they feel? I've never had to do this before.. It just seems weird. I'm so awkward around boys, I barely ever talk to them. I really want to tell this guy I like him, but I have NO idea how. & no it isn't as simple as just saying 'I like you'. Believe me, I've tried that, but it just didn't feel right.. How do you even bring that up in a conversation? :/
I'm probably making this more difficult than it is.
But I'd like to know how one goes about doing this.
Thanks.
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What I would do is find some time where you two can talk where none of your friends or his will come and intertupt you,I know it's not easy to just tell them but you may have to.Ease into it though,do not just blurt it out.Or write it out on a note if you don't think you could do it face to face.I know its nervewracking.
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Honestly, I know it would be so much better to do it face to face, but not only can I barely talk to him normally in person, but I barely ever hang out with him.. I mean, I'd like to say we're friends, but. I don't even know.
& god, it's completely nerve-wracking.
But thanks. I'm planning on doing it soon... Hopefully, at least. I've been saying that since the last day of school, & I keep procrastinating. When I do, I guess I'll post here what happens. :b
& god, it's completely nerve-wracking.
But thanks. I'm planning on doing it soon... Hopefully, at least. I've been saying that since the last day of school, & I keep procrastinating. When I do, I guess I'll post here what happens. :b
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I know,God I could barely tell this guy one time.And good luck and STOP PROCRASTINATING
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Thanks, I'll need it!
& I'm trying not to. Next time he's online I'm going to try to talk to him.
& I'm trying not to. Next time he's online I'm going to try to talk to him.
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Have you done it yet?=)
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No, but I've been talking to him a bit more. He isn't really online all that much, it''s like every time I'm about to say it he logs off. It will happen soon, though!
Who knows? Maybe if I just talk to him more on facebook, I'll be comfortable enough to say it to his face.
Who knows? Maybe if I just talk to him more on facebook, I'll be comfortable enough to say it to his face.
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That sounds better actually.Building up confidence to do it face to face.
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Alright, I did it. Not in person, over facebook, but I did it, and that's all that matters. To be honest, I don't know what to think, because he didn't really respond to it. I told him, exactly: "I don't know if you know this or not, but I really like you."
All he had to say was: "Oh, I didn't know."
And then for the rest of the conversation, he just kind of laughed it off and said it wasn't awkward.
So, he didn't out-right say anything, and that's the only reason why I really wanted to tell him. I'm sure it was a "no, i don't feel the same way." but just without actually saying it. But I don't know, really.
All he had to say was: "Oh, I didn't know."
And then for the rest of the conversation, he just kind of laughed it off and said it wasn't awkward.
So, he didn't out-right say anything, and that's the only reason why I really wanted to tell him. I'm sure it was a "no, i don't feel the same way." but just without actually saying it. But I don't know, really.
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